1 in 3 women will experience intimate partner violence at some point in her life. Most women who leave an abusive partner leave 6 times before they finally leave for good. What can I do to help? What are the problems that are holding people (both men and women) in their abusive relationships and what can the average well meaning person do to get involved. I always say the hardest of all the addictions to treat is an addition to unhealthy love. With most addictions you focus on abstinence, finding replacements, and filling that persons world with other supports. The challenge with unhealthy love is it tends to scorch the earth around the relationship and leave the person very isolated. By the time a relationship is violent many friends and family have already expressed a dislike of the abusive partner and abused person is too ashamed to admit what is going on. People stuck in abusive toxic relationships ARE NOT STUPID! They are typica...